It should be clearly understood that in the Sacred Law (Shari‘ah), covering (satr and hijab) is obligatory for an adult Muslim woman. Without a valid Shar‘i excuse, mere social pressure, people staring, fear of others, dislike, or general psychological discomfort do not normally constitute a justification for abandoning hijab.
A Shar‘i excuse is something due to which there is a predominant fear of serious harm to one’s life, sanity, honor, or religion, and no lawful alternative option remains.
In the situation described, your priority should be to give precedence to the command of Allah over education, employment, comfort, or social acceptance. This is because Shaytan attempts to divert a believer from obligations through various pretexts. Therefore, you should continue seeking help from Allah, remain steadfast, and persevere—this is the Shar‘i requirement.
However, you may adopt simplicity in the style of hijab—such as a simple scarf, muted and neutral colors, a long coat, etc.—so that the requirements of covering are fulfilled while unnecessary visibility and attention are reduced.
If, however, there is real, severe, and ongoing physical, psychological, or mental harm, and no alternative solution exists (such as relocation or a support system), then temporary and minimal relaxation to the extent of necessity may be allowed, on the condition that there is a clear intention to return to full hijab as soon as the excuse ends. Alongside this, unnecessary outings should be avoided, and one should continue supplicating to Allah for ease.
And Allah knows best.
Written by: Muhammad Afzal Zahuri